I Found Hidden Photos

Level 2 Social Lesson by: Aron Thode

Warm-up → Read & Listen → Check Understanding → Language → Use It

A photorealistic view from behind a large computer monitor shows only the upper face of a young woman peeking over the top edge. Her eyes are wide and her lips slightly parted in surprise as she looks at something on the hidden screen.
Surprise!

Did he cheat on me? I (F23) broke up with my boyfriend (M25) after I found some photos on his computer.

We dated for almost three years. One day, I was trying to find a file I needed on his computer. Then I opened a folder inside another folder. I was not looking through his things. I found the pictures by accident.

The photos were of a girl he used to know well. She was posing naked outside. I could tell he saved them from her Instagram Story. To me, this was not the same as looking at a random girl online. He knew her, and that changed everything.

Before this, we had many honest talks about what we think is cheating. We both said trust matters a lot. He said I was too upset over a few pictures. He also said he did not know I would feel this bad. I still feel hurt. Did I make the right choice?

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Vocab List

  • F23 (abbr.) — Used online to mean female, 23 years old; M25 means male, 25 years old.
  • break up (v.) — To end a romantic relationship.
  • folder (n.) — A place on a computer where files are kept.
  • hidden (adj.) — Kept where people cannot easily see or find it.
  • naked (adj.) — Not wearing any clothes.
  • save (v.) — To put something on a computer or phone for later.
  • random (adj.) — Not someone you know.
  • trust (n.) — Belief that someone is honest and good.
  • upset (adj.) — Unhappy and worried.
  • cheating (n.) — Doing something with another person that breaks trust in a relationship.
Comment Tone Check

Speaker: American Female  Duration: 1:16

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Listen and fill the gaps below:

Listen and Fill Gaps

Did he cheat on me? I (F23) broke up with my boyfriend (M25) after I found some (1) __________ on his computer. We dated for almost three years. One day, I was trying to find a file I needed on his computer. Then I opened a (2) __________ inside another folder. I was not looking through his things. I found the pictures by accident. The photos were of a girl he used to know well. She was posing naked outside. I could tell he (3) __________ them from her Instagram Story. To me, this was not the same as looking at a (4) __________ girl online. He knew her, and that changed everything. Before this, we had many honest talks about what we think is cheating. We both said trust matters a lot. He said I was too upset over a few pictures. He also said he did not know I would feel this bad. I still feel (5) __________. Did I make the right choice?
True or False

Answer each question by selecting True or False, then click CHECK to see your results.

  • The poster says she was looking through his things on purpose.
    She says she found the pictures by accident.
  • The couple had honest talks about cheating before this happened.
    She says they had many honest talks about what they think is cheating.
  • The boyfriend said he knew she would feel this bad.
    He said he did not know she would feel this bad.

True or False

1. The poster says she was looking through his things on purpose. T / F

2. The couple had honest talks about cheating before this happened. T / F

3. The boyfriend said he knew she would feel this bad. T / F

Put Events in Order

  • ___ She felt this was cheating because he knew the girl.
  • ___ They had talks about what cheating is.
  • ___ He said she was too upset, but she still broke up with him.
  • ___ The poster found some photos on her boyfriend's computer by accident.

Multiple Choice

1. How did the poster find the pictures?

   A) By accident

   B) On purpose

   C) From his Instagram Story

   D) During a talk

2. Who were the photos of?

   A) The poster

   B) A random girl online

   C) A close friend

   D) A girl he used to know well

3. What did he say about the pictures?

   A) Trust matters a lot

   B) She was too upset over a few pictures

   C) He knew the girl

   D) They dated for almost three years

Vocab Match

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Vocab Match

Match each vocabulary word with a definition:

1. Break up (v)

2. Folder (n)

3. Save (v)

4. Trust (n)

5. Upset (adj)

a) Unhappy and worried.

b) Belief that someone is honest and good.

c) To put something on a computer or phone for later.

d) A place on a computer where files are kept.

e) To end a romantic relationship.

Discussion Builder

Discussion Builder

  1. because / so / but

  2. but / and / because

  3. Also, / But, / I think,

Discussion Questions

  1. Why did the poster feel this was cheating?
  2. Was breaking up the right thing to do?
  3. Is her ex-boyfriend a bad guy? Why?
  4. She looked in a folder on his computer. Was that a mistake?
  5. Do you have your own computer? Do you share a computer?
  6. What kinds of photos do you save?
  7. Can people in a relationship keep some things private?
  8. What things can hurt someone's feelings in a relationship?