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Tattoo Regret

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Close-up comparison of a calf with a small bird tattoo before it is covered by a larger, unfinished floral tattoo.
Before and after.

I don’t usually post about personal problems, but I’m in a bad situation right now and I honestly don’t know what to do. I had a small bird tattoo on my lower leg that my ex-girlfriend did a couple of years ago. After we broke up, I wanted to forget her, and I wanted to cover it up for a long time.

A few months ago, I found a tattoo artist and decided to get a bigger design over it. Before the appointment, we didn’t really discuss the design in detail. When I arrived, she showed me what she had prepared. I wasn’t completely sure about it, but it looked bold and impressive, so I approved it. I really wish I had stopped and thought about it more carefully.

I’ve had one session so far, and the tattoo is much larger and darker than I expected. It still needs another session of shading, but I already regret it. I keep looking at my leg and thinking I’ve made a terrible mistake. I’m worried it has ruined my look.

I know this is only on me and no one else. I approved the design, and I’m not blaming the artist. I’m just scared of making the situation even worse. Should I let her finish it, wait and see how I feel, or look into laser removal?

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Speaker: American Male  Duration: 1:27  YouTube

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Why Did They Post?

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Why Did They Post?

  • He wants advice about what to do after regretting a tattoo cover-up. Correct answer
  • He wants to complain about the tattoo artist who did the cover-up.
  • He wants help choosing a different tattoo design.
True or False

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  • The poster wanted to cover up a tattoo connected to his ex-girlfriend.
  • He and the tattoo artist discussed the new design carefully before the appointment.
  • He felt completely sure about the new design when he first saw it.
  • The new tattoo is bigger and darker than he expected.
  • The tattoo is already completely finished.
  • The poster says the artist is responsible for his mistake.

True or False

1. The poster wanted to cover up a tattoo connected to his ex-girlfriend. TRUEFALSE True

2. He and the tattoo artist discussed the new design carefully before the appointment. TRUEFALSE False

3. He felt completely sure about the new design when he first saw it. TRUEFALSE False

4. The new tattoo is bigger and darker than he expected. TRUEFALSE True

5. The tattoo is already completely finished. TRUEFALSE False

6. The poster says the artist is responsible for his mistake. TRUEFALSE False

Put Events in Order

Put the events in the order they happened, from first to last.

  • 1 His ex-girlfriend tattooed a small bird on his lower leg.
  • 2 After they broke up, he decided he wanted to cover the tattoo.
  • 3 He found an artist and decided to get a bigger design over the old tattoo.
  • 4 He approved the design even though he was not completely sure about it.
  • 5 After the first session, he began to regret the new tattoo.

Put Events in Order

  • He approved the design even though he was not completely sure about it.
  • His ex-girlfriend tattooed a small bird on his lower leg.
  • After the first session, he began to regret the new tattoo.
  • After they broke up, he decided he wanted to cover the tattoo.
  • He found an artist and decided to get a bigger design over the old tattoo.
  1. His ex-girlfriend tattooed a small bird on his lower leg.
  2. After they broke up, he decided he wanted to cover the tattoo.
  3. He found an artist and decided to get a bigger design over the old tattoo.
  4. He approved the design even though he was not completely sure about it.
  5. After the first session, he began to regret the new tattoo.

Words That Go Together

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Words That Go Together

1. Approvef) a design

2. Regrete) a decision

3. Maked) a terrible mistake

4. Ruinc) my look

5. Blameb) the artist

6. Needa) another session

a) another session

b) the artist

c) my look

d) a terrible mistake

e) a decision

f) a design

Everyday Expressions

  1. Choose the meaning of 'ruined my look'. If I say something has ruined my look, I mean it has
  2. Choose the meaning of 'look into'. If you look into something, you it.
  3. Choose the meaning of 'on me'. If I say a mistake is on me, I mean it is
  4. Choose the meaning of 'wish I had stopped'. If I say I wish I had stopped, I mean I

Everyday Expressions

  1. If I say something has ruined my look, I mean it has made my overall appearance worse. or made me want a completely different style.
  2. If you look into something, you try to find out more about it. or decide not to think about it.
  3. If I say a mistake is on me, I mean it is something I cannot control. or my responsibility.
  4. If I say I wish I had stopped, I mean I regret continuing at that time. or think stopping would have caused a problem.

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  1. Show that you understand how he feels.

    I understand why you feel because .

  2. Comment on the decision he already made.

    You may have , but that doesn’t mean .

  3. Suggest what he could do next.

    Before you , you could .

  4. Give your final advice.

    I think you should before .

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  1. Show that you understand how he feels.

    I understand why you feel because .

  2. Comment on the decision he already made.

    You may have , but that doesn’t mean .

  3. Suggest what he could do next.

    Before you , you could .

  4. Give your final advice.

    I think you should before .

Discussion Questions
  1. Do you have any tattoos, or would you ever get one? Why or why not?
  2. Did the poster make a mistake? If so, what was his mistake?
  3. Do you think he should let the artist finish the tattoo? Why or why not?
  4. Why do people sometimes regret tattoos?
  5. How important is it for a design to match someone's personality?
  6. Which kinds of decisions are hardest to undo?
  7. Is it better to fix a mistake quickly or wait before making another decision?
  8. Is it easier to forget an ex if you get rid of things that remind you of them?
  9. When does changing your appearance help you feel like a new person?

Discussion Questions

  1. Do you have any tattoos, or would you ever get one? Why or why not?
  2. Did the poster make a mistake? If so, what was his mistake?
  3. Do you think he should let the artist finish the tattoo? Why or why not?
  4. Why do people sometimes regret tattoos?
  5. How important is it for a design to match someone's personality?
  6. Which kinds of decisions are hardest to undo?
  7. Is it better to fix a mistake quickly or wait before making another decision?
  8. Is it easier to forget an ex if you get rid of things that remind you of them?
  9. When does changing your appearance help you feel like a new person?